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Are you a lazy sex partner?

What is a lazy sex partner? Are you a lazy sex partner? How do we determine what makes a sex partner lazy.  Often people will define their idea of love, respect and sex or by passionately describing someone else sex life.  For starters men and women utilized different roles in the bedroom, according to a recent study the desires between a male and female show similar traits both reaching high dominance in sexual pleasures. Although our sexual perception varies, our bodies can seek new fondness unconsciously. A active partner in sex predominately takes charge in the bedroom, surprisingly initiating intercourse, foreplay, taking the time to find weak and soft spots in your partner, and lastly but not least pleasuring both you and them.  A lazy sex partner display no sexual desire signs, usually on contact lying still and motionless, no initiating roles or experiences, no foreplay giving neither wanting to receive or give oral sex.  The signs differ between a male and female when comparing laziness, so instead of looking for gender roles find common sexual interest, explore new options and learn what emotionally or mentally turns your partner off and on.  Personally I believe women are looked at as lazy sex partners mainly for their honed missionary position, truth is some women reach a faster climax in this old style way of sexual intercourse and carry less likely chances of sexual discomfort in both the male and female.  A good sex partner can bring social and mental peace.

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****Darrena Strawder****                                                                                                                   Student Clinical Psychologist

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How fellatio or cunnilingus enhance the mood.

Today I am super happy to share my understandings of what part fellatio¹, fellatrix² or  (cunnilingus³) play in the bedroom, for starters men and women equally enjoy the benefits of these acts purely for immense pleasure, and the guaranteed orgasmic feelings.  For instance some women may choose fellatrix² aka cunnilingus³ over a painful feeling of a man continuing to stroke making her vagina sore after awhile, and for him as well.

performing fellatio¹, fellatrix² or (cunnilingus³) properly will produce an immediate response and voila!!! both male and female will tremble with uncontrollable feelings and mountains of satisfaction, some describe their first experience as leaving them feeling numb and light as a feather.  Although our sexual pleasures vary at some point we all have or will become fixated on how awesome fellatio¹, fellatrix² or (cunnilingus³) makes you feel before and after sex or making love. Oral sex provides a sense of appreciation, along with emotions of feeling wanted and special, its safe to view oral sex as a mood booster between men and women.

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Student Clinical Psychologist Darrena Strawder

  1. Fellatio= oral stimulation of the penis.
  2. Fellatrix= a woman who performs fellatio.
  3. Cunnilingus= oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris .
  4. Vulva= the external parts of the female genital organs.
  5. Clitoris= a small erectile female organ located within the anterior junction of the labia minora and is responsive to sexual stimulation.
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What is a Sex Therapist

I know the subject of sex is so taboo and finding someone you comfortable with seems harder than the subject, a Sex Therapist is often look at as a sexologist or a freak, I am here to tell you that’s not the case, a Sex Therapist provides feedback and addresses  clients psychological or physical sexual problems.

A Sex Therapist usually a psychiatrist, a marriage and family therapist, a psychologist, or a clinical social worker, becoming a sex therapist requires extra training beyond the minimal amount of training’s in sexuality that is required for each of those licenses.

Sex therapist have carry a particular awareness of sexuality soaring above a personal experience or a personal opinion. Sex therapist mainly have multiple choices of ways to treat issues when someone presents it.